During the life of your relationship you will find that there are various phases that you will have to endure if you want the relationship to last. And hopefully each phase will result in a stronger and healthier bond. But it is possible that at some point your partner will be interested in someone else.

When you are in the process of reconstructing your marriage and your relationship with your spouse, one important point to keep in mind is that while spontaneity in action can create enjoyable results, being too spontaneous with speech often does not! While this does not mean having to carefully guard everything that you say, it is most beneficial to your new found communication if you develop the habit of thinking before you speak. Too often it happens that a person at the end of a long, exhausting day will blurt out something hurtful, or something which will be misinterpreted. Be careful with your words-- for they have great impact, for better or for worse!

Most of us know our partners well enough to realize when something is amiss. Plus we can usually tell when our mate is not being totally honest with us. Trust your instincts but do not jump to conclusions too quickly.